The sidebar time-ago indicator rendered `created_at`, so the relative time stayed pinned to the chat's creation age and never reflected new activity. After sending a message the chat would jump to the top of the list (which sorts by `updated_at`) while still showing a stale label such as "3w", which is confusing.
The indicator was originally added using `updated_at` and was inadvertently switched to `created_at` during a later refactor. Restore `updated_at` (falling back to `created_at` when absent) so the timestamp matches the list ordering and updates whenever a chat is modified.
Fixes#26451