Replace per-message database queries with batch IN-clause queries in
channel message handlers. This eliminates the N+1 query pattern that
caused ~102 queries per channel page load (50 messages × 2 queries each).
Changes:
- Add get_reactions_by_message_ids() to MessageTable: single query
fetches all reactions for multiple messages using IN clause with
User JOIN, returns dict[message_id, list[Reactions]]
- Add get_thread_reply_counts_by_message_ids() to MessageTable: single
GROUP BY aggregate query returns (count, max_created_at) per parent,
replacing full object loads just to call len()
- Refactor get_channel_messages(): 102 → 4 queries per page
- Refactor get_pinned_channel_messages(): 22 → 3 queries per page
- Refactor get_channel_thread_messages(): 53 → 4 queries per page
- Refactor send_notification(): N+1 membership check → batch set lookup