The liveness sweep's ICMP-based verdict isn't trustworthy on every network
path -- a segregated-VLAN report showed it calling three closed ports live
while missing the one port a concurrent nmap scan found genuinely
open|filtered, which also happened to be one of our two historically
confirmed DTLS ports. Rather than trust a "not live" verdict against that
prior, always give PREFERRED_PROBE_PORTS a real handshake attempt even when
the sweep excludes them, bounded to at most those two extra attempts.
This is a stop-gap for the reported failure mode, not a full fix for the
sweep's underlying unreliability -- left a comment on the issue with the
diagnosis and flagged the sweep itself for a deeper redesign.